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Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

Please, do not ask me about religion. I get the evil look every time I tell people I am an agnostic who teeters on atheism. My world resolves around ethics and the rule of law. That’s it. I have no use for religion: religious convictions are not part of my existence -- the laws of man are good enough for me. I have lived in several cities: Seattle, Miami, Norman, Minneapolis-Saint Paul, Saint Cloud, the District of Columbia, Houston, and Mankato. I am not sure where I am going to live next. And I have never really had a profession, only jobs: been a cook, a dishwasher, a civil servant, house cleaner, university instructor and researcher and so on and so forth. Every so often I get questions concerning the role and place of the African woman. Well, I don’t know; at least not with any certainty. What seems to work best is when both partners work as a team: cooperate, coordinate and collaborate their marital efforts. And they should be mindful of the insidious effect of modernization on the African family.

  • Why Do African Men Go Home to Marry?

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde August 27, 2005
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    The African male is perplexing. He can be enigmatic. He can be everything and sometimes, nothing. He can be sweet and loving and caring and benevolent and at the same …

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  • The Story of Sex in the Nigerian Community

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde August 13, 2005
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    Women in Nigeria are beginning to find their place and their voice in a society that was for so long dismissive of their feelings and concerns and their sexual needs. …

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  • Niger: The Shame of a Continent

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde August 3, 2005
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    Niger is half the size of Texas but about twice the size of France. The country is bordered by Algeria, Benin, Burkina Faso, Chad, Libya, Mali and Nigeria. Yet in …

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  • Leadership and Development Problems in Africa: Responding to E. Terfa Ula-Lisa

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde July 26, 2005
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    Must a man or a nation or a continent that is beaten to the ground remain on the ground and wallow in self-pity?  Must we Africans use the injustices and …

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  • Africa and the World: Responding to Paul Adujie

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde July 25, 2005
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    Our leaders have poor judgment and make bad decisions: they go around the world with their heads bowed currying favors; they go from one corner of the world to the …

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  • Charles Taylor: Nigeria and Obasanjo’s Credibility is at Stake

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde May 19, 2005
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    Liberia is far ahead of most African countries in terms of the number of warlords and despots she has produced. And among these malevolent and despicable human beings, Charles Ghankay …

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  • Where Will You Die?

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde May 14, 2005
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    Will death come when you are alone and lonely in a nursing home, at a hospice or in a hospital ward away from the love and gaze of your people? …

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  • Obasanjo’s War

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde April 24, 2005
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    My reading of Obasanjo is unflattering. If he had begun his presidency with the kind of zeal he is now displaying, Nigeria would have been a much better country. Or, …

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  • It is Premature to Hail the Chief

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde March 21, 2005
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    To say the current President Bush is “great” is premature. We don’t know. We simply don’t know yet! And we cannot know until a while into the future..

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  • Africans At Home and Abroad

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde March 21, 2005
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    America is the land of God and gods, a land for the believers and non-believers. It is a land of dream merchants, of fabulists, tale-spinners; and of high and low …

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  • A Nation without Heroes?

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde March 17, 2005
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    Every country on earth has men and women who lived their lives in the service of their country. Every country remembers, reveres, worships and celebrates their heroes – every country …

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  • The Problem with African Men

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde March 10, 2005
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    For the great majority of Africans in the Diaspora, we cannot go back home. Some are economic refugees, while others are shame-induced refugees. We cannot go back to a continent …

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  • The Illegality and Absurdity in Togo

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde February 21, 2005
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    Togo is a country that rivals Nigeria, Cote D’Ivoire, Somalia, Cameroon and the Democratic Republic of Congo and many other countries in terms of corruption, misrule, abuse of power and …

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  • Terrorism in Modern Times

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde February 5, 2005
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    Not all groups that attempts to exert fear in the minds of a targeted population are terrorist groups. Some are nationalists groups or freedom fighters…

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  • Africa: A Chequered Past and a Damned Future?

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde February 5, 2005
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    What has Africa given to the world in terms of science and technology? What contribution have we made in the areas of philosophy, economics, political theory and political thought? And …

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  • Yasser Arafat: The Passing of a Statesman

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde November 16, 2004
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    What greater service is there than the service to one’s own people and to one's own land. Arafat accomplished both: he served his land and his people. He lived his …

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