Introspective

Detribalised Does Not Mean What Most Nigerians Think It Means

Nobody Asked Me, But… “Ah, that man is very detribalised.” In Nigeria, this is almost always a compliment. It is what we say about the politician who...

Call Me Tony: A Parable of Corporate Nigeria

By Temitope Lakisokun The argument over the young trainee who addressed UBA chairman Tony Elumelu by his first name has become a surprisingly revealing debate...

The Myth of New Year Resolutions: Why 2025 Won’t Magically Save You

As we inch closer to the dawn of 2025, the air is thick with the buzz of "New Year, New Me" proclamations. Across the...

What Do Women Want?

What's the matter with women? What do women want? What are they looking for? What manner of men are women looking for? Please tell me. Perhaps I too can be one of those men...

Marriage Breakers

If care is not taken, immediately after saying "Yes! I do", you begin to witness the Gorilla in your partner gradually manifesting...

Let God Make Your Christmas List This Year

Over time, the original motivation behind offering and receiving gifts at Christmas has changed and in most cases, lost in the euphoria of expectations and demands...

Expectations Of An Eligible Spinster…

Part of the reason why a lot of my sisters are not married and are unlikely to find that Mr. Right who would occupy that special place they have reserved for him is that a lot of them are unusual fans of the Rev Martin Luther King: they are dreamers...

Every Woman (2)

Misunderstood. That is exactly what I am. I find that people tend to misunderstand and misinterpret my good intentions to be bad. My girls think I am selfish, immature, and ungrateful. Harsh words, right?

The Need to Grieve

I am intrigued with the grieving process.It is not some morbid fascination of mine.It's just that I don't recollect ever being able to grieve properly.I am never appropriately upset at the death of a loved one...

Every Woman

To think I was voted most likely to get married in high school. Who would have thought that all my beauty will not get me a good man? But I am a tough cookie, so I remain determined to jump that broom. Everything is set; all I need now is the groom...

Friends and Friendships

How do you tackle a situation where you are best of friends with a woman who is happily married, but you are not friends with her husband?

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Aca-media and a Stint of (mis)information

To an average Nigerian, the man, Obasanjo, embodies everything that is negative in planning any form of renaissance. If African renaissance is to be fashioned against the spirit of Obasanjo's inclinations then Africans should be ready for the most horrendous living...

Abia: A Time Of Universal Pretense

Telling the truth is not always easy in a land that is characterised by untrustworthiness; therefore truth becomes an art of rebellion or opposition in the eyes of men and women whose only trade in stock is betrayal...

On that Spectacular Anambra Election

Regardless of who wins the Anambra gubernatorial election, the...

Some Indecent Proposals for a Decent Future

Nigeria is not made of only the petty and the conformist. I am sure that there are a lot of good people out there who are idealistic, principled, honest and maybe even puritan. These good people have, however, been too silent for too long, their actions are not felt, their positions unknown to most...

Haitian Benefit Gala Fund Raiser Held In New York

The government of the United States took over the mantle of oppression and subjugation of Haitians from where the French stopped. The plight of Haitians has followed a pattern ever since...

Time for a Female President in Nigeria?

Let’s look at what 50 years of uninterrupted rule by men has brought Nigeria: civil war, one million dead bodies in the space of 3 years, systematized corruption, destruction of national morals, ostentatious living, and decadence that would make the ancient Romans blush...

Why President Yar’Adua Should Cut Obasanjo Loose Now

The first rule of the political game is political survival. It is never over and the battle carries on for as long as one has in his possession the prized trophy desired by both friends and foe...

The Lagos In Lagos

Lagos has fallen to the iron-grip of men of the underworld. Hardly a day passes without them striking at different locations, heavily armed, visiting banks and other money-spinning corporate concerns...

My Neighbour is the Thief

This article is not one of those usual gripes currently associated with discussions about the problems of Nigeria. The truth of the matter is that the current narrative discourse on the trouble with Nigeria, as Chinua Achebe made the characteristic title of his 1983 monograph, has become sickening, disgusting, nauseating, downright annoying and full of rubbish talk...

Roar, African, Roar

This is an eclectic collection of short stories offering ample evidence that African literature is alive and well. New talent rises every day from the dawn of yesterday's departure. It provokes thought...