Vera Ezimora

I am a writer, a blogger, and an online talk radio host. I am also a big dreamer and a perpetual laugher. I laugh hysterically at my own jokes, in my sleep, and at imaginary things and events, sometimes to the shock and detriment of people around me. According to my heart desires, I am the future wife of a very lucky man and the future mother of a confusingly identical set of twin boys (and their baby sister). The rest is not yet history. My Blog | Facebook | E-mail: vera@verastic.com

Whose Mouth Will You Have To Stop Feeding?

Contrary to what our Nigerian and African minds might tell us, the fiscal cliff is not just an American problem, something that only actual Americans have to deal with...

Top 12 Reasons Why Igbos and Yorubas Should not Marry

If you have been pressured into breaking up because of tribal differences and you have no idea why you should - or if you should, then I am here to help you make that decision...

To Date A Married Man

There have been many cases of married men who have come to speak the words to me that in their heads, no woman can say no to: I want to marry you. There have been men who have tried to pretend to be unmarried, men who have said they are unmarried but quickly explained why their wives have made it an unbearable marriage, and why I, have been sent by God to save them...

Facebook: The 9th Planet

Why do people leave false compliments on Facebook?  Why tell a girl who obviously looks like she has just been used for a money ritual that she looks edible?  Edible to whom?  Vultures?  A pack of wild animals?  A ferocious beast?

Date Me Jeje, Date Me Tender

I have never, ever been on a date.  For someone who can describe a perfect date even while in the middle of REM sleep, it is rather appalling that I have never, ever been on a date...

The First Impression…

The First Impression is a lasting impression.  The sooner you learn that the first impression you make on a woman is a lasting – and possibly perpetual – impression, the better for you...

Poles Apart

He looks like an average Joe, nothing special.  But the moment he opens his mouth, you need not wonder just how high his IQ is.  He speaks English like he invented the language.  Who knew that English could make you feel all girly inside?

By Their Looks, You Shall Know Them

Why do Nigerian women think they look good with bright blonde wigs and weaves?  A light skinned woman hardly looks good with a blonde weave, but a dark skinned woman looks worse...

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