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Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

Please, do not ask me about religion. I get the evil look every time I tell people I am an agnostic who teeters on atheism. My world resolves around ethics and the rule of law. That’s it. I have no use for religion: religious convictions are not part of my existence -- the laws of man are good enough for me. I have lived in several cities: Seattle, Miami, Norman, Minneapolis-Saint Paul, Saint Cloud, the District of Columbia, Houston, and Mankato. I am not sure where I am going to live next. And I have never really had a profession, only jobs: been a cook, a dishwasher, a civil servant, house cleaner, university instructor and researcher and so on and so forth. Every so often I get questions concerning the role and place of the African woman. Well, I don’t know; at least not with any certainty. What seems to work best is when both partners work as a team: cooperate, coordinate and collaborate their marital efforts. And they should be mindful of the insidious effect of modernization on the African family.

  • Global Media Imbalance: Responding to Uche Nworah

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde December 7, 2006
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    Nothing good, it seems, can come out of Africa, and so the western media rarely paint Africa and her people in good light. As lopsided, unfair and unjust as most of …

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  • Blame the African Witches

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde December 5, 2006
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    Every African village seems to have at least a witch, and wizard. Some villages are rumored to have as many as a dozen who are said to be responsible for …

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  • Has My State Governor Lost His Mind?

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde December 3, 2006
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    What do you make of a proposed Bayelsa State government satellite orbiting space? This is difficult to fathom especially in a state where the vast majority of the people find …

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  • When Your Papa or Mama is a Thief

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde November 30, 2006
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    What do you do or say to your dad when you know he is a thief? You know it, just as most Nigerians, that your dad is robbing the treasury. …

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  • African Marriages as Business Ventures (Conclusion)

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde November 28, 2006
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    Trouble and untold grief loom large within the Nigerian Diaspora. Finding their place within a strange society, raising a family that is at once Western and African, maintaining a decent …

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  • What Do Women Want?

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde November 22, 2006
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    What’s the matter with women? What do women want? What are they looking for? What manner of men are women looking for? Please tell me. Perhaps I too can be …

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  • Ministerial Appointments in Nigeria

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde November 22, 2006
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    The political appointment process is not an exact science. Generally speaking, once the votes are counted and a particular candidate is declared the winner, the notables who participated in the political …

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  • Oyenusi, Anini and Obasanjo: What’s the Difference?

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde November 20, 2006
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    As things stand today, there is not much difference between the dealings of Aso Rock and the dealings of street urchins who use force or the threat of force to …

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  • Calculating and Calibrating Babangida

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde November 17, 2006
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    The Nigerian community at home and abroad is agog with General Babangida’s every move and pronouncements, so much so their concerns and fear and apprehension about the man borders on …

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  • Pat Utomi’s Presidential Campaign

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde November 15, 2006
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    If Mr. Utomi wants to be the president of Nigeria come 2007, he needs to act like a serious candidate. He needs to sell himself to the people: the men …

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  • Exterminating the Palestinians

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde November 13, 2006
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    Today, Palestine is getting to be as perilous as Baghdad. The Palestinian territory, the world must know, is now Israel’s killing-field, their shooting range, a slaughterhouse…

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  • Governor Goodluck Jonathan: His Critics and His Friends

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde November 8, 2006
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    There is something amiss in Bayelsa State. It is slightly difficult for me to lay my hands on what it is, but suffice to say that there seems to be a …

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  • African Marriages As Business Ventures (2)

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde November 5, 2006
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    The United States of America is full of Africans who came to join their spouses and then unceremoniously abandoned their marital homes. Nigerians, more than other Africans, are masters of “taking …

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  • The Niger Delta Today

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde October 31, 2006
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    It is no secret that the only thing that holds Nigeria together is the spoils from oil and gas. The story of Nigeria is the story of greed, excesses and …

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  • Death and Sex: The Forbidden Topics

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde October 15, 2006
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    Aside of death, sex is another matter Africans don’t like talking about. But you see sex is everywhere. One way or the other, once or a thousand times in one’s …

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  • In a Way…It Happened This Monday

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde October 10, 2006
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    We meet to talk about things, we talk about the kind of things friends and lovers talk about: life and ideas and aspirations and fears and the light in our …

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