Keeping Mum

You will not be on this earth in the next two hundred years. Think about it, real good.

Hard to swallow, huh? When I was eight years old, I remember saying to my mum ‘Mother, where do old people come from?’ She sighed and then proceeded to explain that people like me evolved with time and that these old people had been children once. It was a big blow. A part of us never believes that we shall age or die: we foolhardily believe that we are physically invincible. People depart this turbulent world on a daily basis; we mourn them for a season but soon return to our old ways. The sad aspect is that many people pass on without discovering who they really are and worst of all, without leaving any legacies behind.

Too many Nigerians have no value for human life. I’m not even talking about the lives of their fellow human beings, but their own lives. All you need do is take a look at the reckless lifestyles some people lead and you can tell that they don’t give a hoot about themselves anymore and probably never did. I get worried when I see the street folks especially. These area boys and girls we perceive as a menace to society are actually lost sheep: people who don’t have a clue about life and who have no reason to live. Many of the armed robbers are heart broken and disillusioned people.

The lunatics that prance the streets stark naked in broad daylight weren’t born that way. They are probably victims of cruel circumstances that you and me know absolutely nothing about.

Life may be rosy for you relatively (we all have our own problems after all and wearing the shoes, know where they pinch so well) however; we can’t keep looking away from the folks who aren’t a pretty sight. One day after shooing a child beggar away and winding the car window upward as an acid victim approached, I realized that I was merely running away from my own shadow.

Like it or not, these people are a part of our world and will keep following us around until we do something about them once and for all. Sure, it feels good to toss the wretched of the earth a few coins now and then, but how far does that really go?

We need to make a din so that our government can really wake up to its responsibilities. We need to solve this sort of problem from the root cause. How can we watch innocent children on the streets imbibing criminal tendencies everyday and all we do is whine about our own security?

I’ve noticed one ugly trait our people have. We like to keep mum even when issues that directly concern us are being raised. I’ll illustrate. While I prepared to travel to the Eastern region of the country over the Christmas holidays, I expected a hundred percent hike in fares. To my chagrin, the transport moguls had raised the fare far higher than that. Although I could still afford to squeeze out more money, I decided not to do so without a fuss. Needless to say, I was a real tough customer at the car park that day (and can you blame me?). Eventually I paid the fare and found myself a (cozy?) space to seat. You can then imagine how put off I was, when I was asked to pay another chunky sum for my luggage. I refused point blank and argued my point for nearly half an hour. At the end of the day I sorely regretted not traveling by air, but at least I won the luggage debate (after shouting myself hoarse!).

However, I found it a bit odd that only one fellow passenger had the guts to complain while I did. All the others hunched over timidly and kept their mouths clamped shut. Ironically, they didn’t appear more affluent than I was and I knew that they felt the pinch of the exploitation just as painfully as I had. So why didn’t they speak up? Cat got their tongue?

Each time I read about the Montgomery-Alabama bus boycotts (in 1955-56), I marvel at the unity of spirit displayed by the African American people. If they hadn’t resolved to go about their daily businesses on foot, day in day out for over twelve months, they’d probably still be segregated by now.

Are Nigerians ready to make sacrifices for long term gain or are they going to keep on keeping mum? Remember, grumbling about societal decadence in your kitchen or bedroom doesn’t count!

We must find more ways to speak out and engage in NON-VIOLENT protest.

Latest Posts

An Only Child Named Friday

Homage: Return To Familiar Places - The Memoir by...

The Yoruba ‘Omoluabi’ Ethos And Nigeria’s Leadership

The Yoruba people in the Southwest of Nigeria are...

Southwest and the power of early preparation

The Southwest, although it now laudably has a Development...

El-Rufai’s Detention: Justice, Political Vendetta Or A Test Of Nigeria’s Rule Of Law?

The continuing legal battle involving former Kaduna State Governor,...

Don't miss

Nigerian Men and their Foreign Wives

Culturally, Nigerian men are overbearing, controlling, and paternalistic.  They relate to their fathers and mothers differently. They believe it is “a man’s world” and so they have the tendency to relegate women to subservient roles. I am stunned by the transformation Nigerian men, married to non-Nigerian women, have gone through in the United States...

Is Genevieve Nnaji Nigeria’s First Movie Superstar?

What is this Nnaji mystique that has her audience colliding heads so joyfully, crawling, craving some time in her sun? Star quality is what it is. The amount of talent dripping from her little finger is more than many of our other female leading ladies have combined...

Why Do African Men Go Home to Marry?

The African male is perplexing. He can be enigmatic. He can be everything and sometimes, nothing. He can be sweet and loving and caring and benevolent and at the same time oppressive. His life is full of contradictions. In so many ways, he is a wounded animal as a result of his historical past...

Mobil’s Oily Battle Over Intellectual Property Rights

The eight-year long battle between Commandclem Nigeria Limited and Mobil Producing Nigeria Limited, over ownership of patent and intellectual rights to a chemical invention for offshore drilling seems in sight…

Lost in a Sea of Hair Weaves

One can understand some black women wearing wigs for the same reasons that some white women do; because they are losing or have lost their hair. One can even make allowances for wigs being worn for the occasional change of look. But how to explain young women with full heads of hair who will never be seen dead with their natural hair?
Joan C. Akubue
Joan C. Akubue
Joan C. Akubue is a Client Service Executive/copywriter for Tequila Nigeria. Author of The Last African Poet, a book of verse (Priceless Books, Lagos) currently being studied as a literature text in several Nigerian schools, she also writes fiction, plays, songs and poetry. Some of her poems have been published online (www.poetry.com). Others have been selected for publication in a soon to be released anthology titled: 'Under the Quicksilver moon'. A few have been set to classical music. Akubue writes a weekly column for the Guardian on Saturday, a series of essays that examine aspects of everyday life. In her words, "I read voraciously, write from the heart, love refined music such as jazz, gospel and Mozart. I'm also keen on travelling, meeting new people, fashion and good grooming. Nothing does it for me like a good laugh and the company of like minds." She has a B.Sc. from the Computer Science University of Nigeria.

LEAVE A REPLY

Please enter your comment!
Please enter your name here