Man & Woman

Woman As The Pearl Of Valentine

There’s no better way to give proper attention to Valentine’s Day than celebrating the essence of womanhood. It is incumbent on me to deliver knockout...

Oni, BAO and the mathematics of alignment

The recent realignment in the UK - where figures like Robert Jenrick are “uniting the right” - proves the “defection bug” is no longer...

Osun APC, Tinubu’s hand and the Ides of March

Ahead of the 2026 Osun governorship election, it is incontrovertible that a consensus candidate has been chosen for the All Progressives Congress (APC). He...

You Can’t Father a Child and Abandon Him, Mackson!!!

The young man asked me to help convince his father, Mackson, to submit himself to a blood test to verify his paternity...

The Struggles and Pains of the Nigerian Woman

It has been widely said that: ‘the African man is Polygynous by nature’; but the truth is that it is the woman who once again bears the pains and blames that arise from polygyny…

When You Are Considerably Older Than Your Spouse

There are things about young maidens that drive a man wild and crazy. Their young minds and young bodies and young souls can and do drive men to the brink of insanity...

Xmas Encounter with a Sex Machine

It was an Xmas encounter with an unassuming sex machine, one who sexually 'intimidated' me and humbled me out of my wits. I went home that fateful Christmas day feeling happy and thanking God for both the gift of Christ and the gift of sex!

Date Me Jeje, Date Me Tender

I have never, ever been on a date.  For someone who can describe a perfect date even while in the middle of REM sleep, it is rather appalling that I have never, ever been on a date...

Parenting Matters

Most people will still agree that the education of children begins in the home and that parenting in the United States can be quite challenging. The demands of daily life often times seem to overshadow the structure, care and nurturing that our children need in our role as parents...

Child Rearing – Figments of the Imagination and the Reality of Discipline among Nigerian Parents

It is important for all who serve the role of parents to continue to examine our thinking in the context of our reality while carefully inviting one another to explore alternate ways of thinking about parenting...

The First Impression…

The First Impression is a lasting impression.  The sooner you learn that the first impression you make on a woman is a lasting – and possibly perpetual – impression, the better for you...

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Looking at the Nigerian Society from both sides: Still on the National Dialogue

The Southern part of Nigeria is dominated by people who studied in Britain, speak fine English, but are short of the political philosophy evinced in nation-building...

Oyo State Is Deserving Of Its Leaders

Can Bayo Alao-Akala do it, or can the people around him let him do it? Does he have the idea at all of what needs to be done, rather than just playing politics with the lives of people, while playing to the gallery with speeches that were written for him by well-paid sycophants and hangers-on?

Chuma Nwokolo’s Great Game Against Corruption

If you’re an enlightened Nigerian but don’t know who...

The Baltasar Endonga Saga: A Disturbing Insight into Abuse of Power and Public Trust

A recent scandal involving prominent Equatorial Guinean official Baltasar...

Re-Thinking Democracy

My fervent contention is that in unorganised societies, especially in Afro-Asian states, democracy is no longer a viable political system...

Before You Judge Them…

Our country as it is today is threatened by a total breakdown of law and order. There is the ever increasing rate of armed robbery, the abduction of expatriates, corruption, bickerings among our leaders...

Once Upon A Life On The Dangerous Seas

The talk of oil thieves across the waters of...

Where Is the Pride of Nigerians?

Nigeria is challenged. With growth, we have a chance to wipe out the stigma of abject poverty, and our people can enjoy the advantages of being citizens of an increasingly prosperous country...

Aid to Haiti: Nigeria, South Africa and African Union should work together

Many African countries including Nigeria, South Africa, Rwanda and others are offering assistance to Haiti but they should synchronize their effort...

For God And Country

Have you heard of the State Assembly that sought to reward its four years of luxurious indolence with police escorts and payments of allowances for life...