Man & Woman

Woman As The Pearl Of Valentine

There’s no better way to give proper attention to Valentine’s Day than celebrating the essence of womanhood. It is incumbent on me to deliver knockout...

Oni, BAO and the mathematics of alignment

The recent realignment in the UK - where figures like Robert Jenrick are “uniting the right” - proves the “defection bug” is no longer...

Osun APC, Tinubu’s hand and the Ides of March

Ahead of the 2026 Osun governorship election, it is incontrovertible that a consensus candidate has been chosen for the All Progressives Congress (APC). He...

You Can’t Father a Child and Abandon Him, Mackson!!!

The young man asked me to help convince his father, Mackson, to submit himself to a blood test to verify his paternity...

The Struggles and Pains of the Nigerian Woman

It has been widely said that: ‘the African man is Polygynous by nature’; but the truth is that it is the woman who once again bears the pains and blames that arise from polygyny…

When You Are Considerably Older Than Your Spouse

There are things about young maidens that drive a man wild and crazy. Their young minds and young bodies and young souls can and do drive men to the brink of insanity...

Xmas Encounter with a Sex Machine

It was an Xmas encounter with an unassuming sex machine, one who sexually 'intimidated' me and humbled me out of my wits. I went home that fateful Christmas day feeling happy and thanking God for both the gift of Christ and the gift of sex!

Date Me Jeje, Date Me Tender

I have never, ever been on a date.  For someone who can describe a perfect date even while in the middle of REM sleep, it is rather appalling that I have never, ever been on a date...

Parenting Matters

Most people will still agree that the education of children begins in the home and that parenting in the United States can be quite challenging. The demands of daily life often times seem to overshadow the structure, care and nurturing that our children need in our role as parents...

Child Rearing – Figments of the Imagination and the Reality of Discipline among Nigerian Parents

It is important for all who serve the role of parents to continue to examine our thinking in the context of our reality while carefully inviting one another to explore alternate ways of thinking about parenting...

The First Impression…

The First Impression is a lasting impression.  The sooner you learn that the first impression you make on a woman is a lasting – and possibly perpetual – impression, the better for you...

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On the Epidemic of Greed in Nigeria

Like the British Psychologist, Oliver James put it in...

Execution And Tracking Of Constituency Projects In Nigeria: Matters Arising

Simply put, Zonal Intervention Projects (ZIPs), also known as...

The World Cup in South Africa: A Nation Awakes (part 5)

Nigeria has not won an international senior trophy for 16 years. That should tell you that Nigeria is not a very good football team despite what its people think...

Traducers and Thick Air: Responding to Mohammed Haruna, and Olu Odeniyi

If Dr. Odeniyi and President Obasanjo want to consult with God, well, that’s all fine and dandy; but they should do it in the privacy of their homes and hearts. Religion has become another avenue through which public servants bamboozle and defraud the public. Soon, very soon religion would be used as a WMD…

Auctioneers and Buyers of Igbo Presidency

Political debates are heating up Nigeria for the 2015 presidential elections. The debates are divided among regions, political divides and individuals in the country...

The Status of Environmental Governance in the Nigerian Oil Gas Industry

Environmental governance does not only deal with the kinds of top-down mechanisms frequently used by government to ensure regulatory compliance. It includes actions taken by civil society groups, scientific community, businesses and the public, that can be used to improve environmental conditions...

Supreme Court Silence: A Judgment Without Words?

The silence of Nigeria’s Supreme Court over the Certified...

South Africa and the Advent of President Jacob Zuma

So much for the naysayers of all complexions and complexities - within and without of Africa - who at the onset of majority rule in South Africa, predicted with prophetic certainty that that nation was doomed...

Amaechi, Model Schools and Government Policies

We have deemed it convenient to remind the state government to review from time to time some of its policies to see if they meet with the present realities...

Girl Power Unleashed

The crucial acts of recognizing our rights and standing up to speak out for oneself and for others anytime anywhere are qualities I have always felt are missing in a lot of us...