Man & Woman

Woman As The Pearl Of Valentine

There’s no better way to give proper attention to Valentine’s Day than celebrating the essence of womanhood. It is incumbent on me to deliver knockout...

Oni, BAO and the mathematics of alignment

The recent realignment in the UK - where figures like Robert Jenrick are “uniting the right” - proves the “defection bug” is no longer...

Osun APC, Tinubu’s hand and the Ides of March

Ahead of the 2026 Osun governorship election, it is incontrovertible that a consensus candidate has been chosen for the All Progressives Congress (APC). He...

The Problem with Single African Women

Every Nigerian man I know would rather marry a Nigerian woman. But sadly, these women want to know the type of car one drives, whether one lives in a home with a 2-car-garage or in an apartment...

African Marriages As Business Ventures

There was a time when Africans, especially the men, kept to their promise of someday returning home to marry the women they left behind. Those days are mostly long gone...

Nigerian Men and their Foreign Wives

Culturally, Nigerian men are overbearing, controlling, and paternalistic.  They relate to their fathers and mothers differently. They believe it is “a man’s world” and so they have the tendency to relegate women to subservient roles. I am stunned by the transformation Nigerian men, married to non-Nigerian women, have gone through in the United States...

Musings of a Bachelor…

Getting hitched has never solved anybody's problems. In fact, marriage increases a man's troubles and problems and frustrations and responsibilities...

How To Find, Marry And Adapt Your Expectations Of What A Good African Wife Is

I don tire for all these my African brothers sef! Good African women abound. They are plentiful, and simply waiting to be taken. My friend Victor has convinced me.

Men In The Pursuit Of Love

I have always wondered why we men can't easily resist the emotional pull that beautiful women exact on our hearts...

The Nice Caring Guy!

He's the dream of every young, naïve and inexperienced girl who has not yet experienced a heart break. Even the more sophisticated, experienced and mature ones still end up with him now and then...

A Love Letter To My Valentine

You now taste like hemlock, sweetheart, full of bad blood. Hugging you is like embracing a sword...

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Naija Women Can Play The Game Too!

I don't think it is out of place for us to concede that a woman's brain is not an organ of her sex. If we keep saying that women are weak because of their physical configuration, how else can we reconcile this with how much they have held their own against us?

How Not To Steal From The Chimamanda Brand

At the drop of Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s name a...

How to be a Deputy Governor

Why any politician would aspire or accept to be a worthless “spare tyre” deputy governor or any type of second-in-command at all in this warped democracy is one question I have always pondered on having observed with depression the plight of those politicians...

Who is Afraid of the National Conference?

Regardless of the political insinuations from all quarters about the need or call for National Conference, the reality of the season dictates that Nigerians must come together  to discuss and re-determine the status of Nigerian nation...

How To Be An African

The white man is happy however that he can take over the world technologically, morally and now culturally. And we are very much part of the blame...

BP = Big Polluter = British Pensioners = Big Problem = Bankruptcy Probability

It is good news that President Obama is demanding and insisting that BP establish an escrow account for the clean up and compensation in the aftermath of the BP disaster...

Effective control of Cyberspace

Cyberspace can be controlled by the government giving space to private owners and governing the space with rules and regulations...

For and on Behalf of Nigerians who Appreciate Nigerians…

One day, our country will be better. One day, no one will promote mediocrity and failure in this country but reserve kudos for excellence and dedication of service. When that day comes, and Nigeria sings, your names, though unsung now, will be included in the long list of those honored!

Yar’adua Return: Deceiving a Decent Nation!

From all indications, a few unscrupulous individuals with no interest of the country at heart have continued to hoodwink and manipulate the rest of us. We all are aware that behind all these deceit and web of lies is the issue of succession...

How the Ebola Virus Got To Nigeria

Now that we got the ‘all clear’ and we...