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Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

Please, do not ask me about religion. I get the evil look every time I tell people I am an agnostic who teeters on atheism. My world resolves around ethics and the rule of law. That’s it. I have no use for religion: religious convictions are not part of my existence -- the laws of man are good enough for me. I have lived in several cities: Seattle, Miami, Norman, Minneapolis-Saint Paul, Saint Cloud, the District of Columbia, Houston, and Mankato. I am not sure where I am going to live next. And I have never really had a profession, only jobs: been a cook, a dishwasher, a civil servant, house cleaner, university instructor and researcher and so on and so forth. Every so often I get questions concerning the role and place of the African woman. Well, I don’t know; at least not with any certainty. What seems to work best is when both partners work as a team: cooperate, coordinate and collaborate their marital efforts. And they should be mindful of the insidious effect of modernization on the African family.

  • What Do Men and Women Want?

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde May 15, 2007
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    Most people don’t even spend the time to get to know their partners before marriage. For such people, it is enough that their partner is from a good and well-to-do …

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  • A Visit to the Whorehouse

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde May 11, 2007
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    An escapade and exploration to the whorehouse could get you any of a dozen other inconveniences. Whatever you do and however you do it, you want to stay away from …

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  • Yar’Adua and the Question of Legitimacy

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde May 8, 2007
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    Between now and the inauguration day, Yar’Adua should meet with critics and opponents with genuine interest in the survival and progress of the country. There is the need to join forces for …

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  • Buying and Selling Human Body Parts in Nigeria

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde May 1, 2007
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    In Africa, especially in Nigeria, human sacrifice is no longer as common as it used to be. But it still goes on though. You just need to know where to go …

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  • Religious Conversion and Confessions

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde April 27, 2007
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    Some of my friends, relatives and neighbors have taken to spying on me, watching to see if I have been making midnight or early morning visits to the Shango, the …

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  • A Man’s Response to “What Does It Mean To Be a Nigerian Woman in America?”

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde April 25, 2007
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    There is the tendency amongst some Africans to think that African culture is backward and primitive and all that…

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  • The Verdict of History and Posterity

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde April 24, 2007
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    Everything that has been said and written about Obasanjo can be summed up in one simple sentence: he was incompetent and vengeful; he was a failure, a disappointment, a waste and …

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  • Congratulations to Yar’Adua and Jonathan for Winning the 2007 Election

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde April 23, 2007
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    The 2007 elections were concluded last week. The exercise was deemed free and fair by both the EFCC and the International Monitoring Group, as well as by all Nigerians at …

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  • Searching and Waiting For Reuben Abati

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde April 22, 2007
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    Do you know that those meyguards at Trafalgar & Locke House will not allow me to see Mr. Abati? On Monday they told me I didn’t have an appointment to …

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  • Your Honorable, Your Highness and Your Excellency

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde April 17, 2007
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    It’s been five weeks since I retuned to Nigeria, am still trying to get a handle on a lot of things. And although I am very happy to be back …

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  • Don Imus: Further Punishment Would Be Unjust and Un-American

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde April 12, 2007
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    Hateful words have a way of consuming those who utter them. Hateful words also have a way of damaging people’s sense of self and their self-esteem. We see both coming …

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  • The Senselessness of Twenty-Three Presidential Candidates

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde April 10, 2007
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    There are twenty-three candidates vying to oust the ruling party in Nigeria and its presidential candidate. It makes no sense…

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  • Unromantic Nigerian Men: Responding to Michael Oluwagbemi

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde April 2, 2007
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    The duty of every red-blooded African man is to shine as many congos as earthly possible; while it is the duty of any and all blue-blooded African woman to make …

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  • On This Valentine’s Day Just Tell Me You Love Me

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde April 2, 2007
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    For several years now, the cost of love has been discouraging me from falling in love again. It is because of the cost of love that I have been running …

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  • Valentine’s Day…Still Looking for Love

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde April 2, 2007
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    Why do I have to wait this long for the “it” woman to come into my world. Why? You see, not just any woman would do. She must be a …

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  • Is Marriage in My Best Interest?

    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde April 1, 2007
    by Sabella Ogbobode Abidde

    Some people marry for love. For economic reasons. For social status. For stability. For children. For cultural purposes. Or simply because it is the logical thing to do right after …

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