Man & Woman

Woman As The Pearl Of Valentine

There’s no better way to give proper attention to Valentine’s Day than celebrating the essence of womanhood. It is incumbent on me to deliver knockout...

Oni, BAO and the mathematics of alignment

The recent realignment in the UK - where figures like Robert Jenrick are “uniting the right” - proves the “defection bug” is no longer...

Osun APC, Tinubu’s hand and the Ides of March

Ahead of the 2026 Osun governorship election, it is incontrovertible that a consensus candidate has been chosen for the All Progressives Congress (APC). He...

He Loves Her, He Loves Her Not: The Things Men Say

 “Look, ten years from now, when you have the house with a white picket fence, 2.5 kids, a mortgage and a dog, you will both be different.  She may be chubby after a couple of kids, but you better love her..."

The Family Meeting

Don’t ask me why, but in African culture the thinking tends to be “why resolve the matter quietly and peacefully between the parties concerned, when you could involve the whole village and make it a jamboree?”

Why Gender Equality Is A Problem For The African Woman

I don’t subscribe to a man dominating his wife, as many men commonly do without blinking an eyelid...

For How Long Can A Deathly Union Survive on ‘For Better Or Worse’?

Should a woman remain in an unfair, unbalanced and unfeeling relationship whose myriad of problems she does not have the solution to because the solution is in the man’s head as conditioned by phallic symbols and only him can proffer it?

Why Romantic Love Confuses Me

If “romantic” love is true and real, shouldn’t you be in love with him regardless of how he has treated you? Should it matter if he doesn’t love you anymore?

Hush!!! I'm Getting Married!

Despite my grievances and doubts, today, i take a bold step of faith. Crossing over has not been easy and the fact that I'm crossing over holds no guarantees...

Her Marriage To Three Men And The ‘Poliomyelitic’ Child

She was an angelic, innocent, and beautiful village Belle until her foster father dragged her into marrying three men 86 years a go...

What Do Men and Women Want?

Most people don't even spend the time to get to know their partners before marriage. For such people, it is enough that their partner is from a good and well-to-do family, it is enough that their partner is from a religious and or spiritual family...

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These Pugilist-leaders

The scuffle which was reported on September 17th 2013 to have occurred in Nigeria’s House of Representatives is a mark the that (dis)honournable members are showcasing their incompetence...

Song of Alamieyeseigha: If We Don’t Speak Up…

For our brother Governor Diepreye Solomon Peter Alamieyeseigha, go, go serve our sentence, we are all thieves! When you return our rusting guns will boom a thousand times for the homecoming of a good son of the soil. Go well, great thief. We shall miss you each time we take a lunch break from the hard work of looting our mothers’ treasures!

Spike Lee and Nollywood

I agree that there is room for improvement in Nollywood productions, as indeed with anything else, I do feel that Spike Lee’s Nollywood remarks were suffocatingly patronising, condescending, paternalistic and hubristic; characteristics which he has often detested and decried in the many of the antagonists with whom he has crossed swords over the years...

New Pope, new churching…?

If you are in any position of leadership whether physical or spiritual,  the litmus test to the efficacy of your leadership or the legacy you leave behind is in your ability to grow your own people to be as successful as you are. If your people don’t have light, you should not have light...

For Mama Abigail Arokoyu

I didn't shed a tear when I was told that Ye Wande had passed on. I knew she had gone to be with the Lord. I can't tell her age because back then when she was born, there was no record keeping...

It’s Time to Save Nigeria

In spite of the nation’s vast pool of human resources both at home and abroad, all we could come up with for President was a nice, smooth gentleman who, unfortunately, happened to be very sickly and psychologically overwhelmed by the tasks at hand...

Nigerian Society and Church Ministers: Warri as Case Study

Warri is a shameless society with perverted minds and shackled consciences on the loose. The capacity for crime is nonesuch. That is a city where crime busters newly posted there, promote criminality within minutes of arrival...

In Osun, Commerce is Life

Since time immemorial, Commerce has been seen as the...

Trump’s Adventure in Venezuela: Implications for Nigeria

Recently, the world was reminded of the domineering, totalitarian,...

Addressing the gender stereotype in Nigeria’s political sphere

Since 1999, when Nigeria returned to democratic governance following...