Man & Woman

Woman As The Pearl Of Valentine

There’s no better way to give proper attention to Valentine’s Day than celebrating the essence of womanhood. It is incumbent on me to deliver knockout...

Oni, BAO and the mathematics of alignment

The recent realignment in the UK - where figures like Robert Jenrick are “uniting the right” - proves the “defection bug” is no longer...

Osun APC, Tinubu’s hand and the Ides of March

Ahead of the 2026 Osun governorship election, it is incontrovertible that a consensus candidate has been chosen for the All Progressives Congress (APC). He...

Unromantic Nigerian Men: Responding to Michael Oluwagbemi

The duty of every red-blooded African man is to shine as many congos as earthly possible; while it is the duty of any and all blue-blooded African woman to make the man pay in cash and kind or with his sweat and blood. The days of free lunch are over...

Nigerian Men…The Good, The Bad, The Ugly!

Bold, brash, infuriating, funny, crafty, big-hearted, double-dealing... Nigerian men are as different as they come but there are some characteristics that stand out...

On This Valentine’s Day Just Tell Me You Love Me

For several years now, the cost of love has been discouraging me from falling in love again. It is because of the cost of love that I have been running away from Oyinbo girls. Holy Moses, they want this and that and more...

Roses Are Red. So Are My Eyes

Every month in America, a holiday extracts money from me like a root canal. Do I get a raise from my job every month? Do you know how rich I would be if I were to get a bump in my salary every Christmas, Kwanza, New Year Day, President's Day, Chinese New year and Valentine's day?

Valentine’s Day…Still Looking for Love

Why do I have to wait this long for the "it" woman to come into my world. Why? You see, not just any woman would do. She must be a 10, a perfect 10 in every way and on all scale of measurement...

Is Marriage in My Best Interest?

Some people marry for love. For economic reasons. For social status. For stability. For children. For cultural purposes. Or simply because it is the logical thing to do right after they’ve achieved some measure of success...

This Scarcity Of Soul Mates Sef

Marrying a Nigerian man is like buying a car from an auction. What you see is NOT what you get...

How to keep a Nigerian Man

It is not hard to see why many Nigerian young men are either postponing their marriageable age or altogether abandoning the enterprise. From Nigeria to America and even Europe the women are crying out loud: "there are no Nigerian men that want to marry!"

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MLK: A Tribute to a Quintessential Black American

"We must learn to live together as brothers or...

Presidential Hopeful At A Disadvantage…

Journalists asking Kerry to be more forthcoming about what he wants to do and how he wants to do it are indirectly helping to deflate Kerry‘s balloon, giving undue advantage to Bush...

Soludo Is on Point But Must Go Farther

I have since learnt not to bet against Soludo. Soludo represents an emerging and rare trend in government: a seasoned professional with a solid team...

Ndigbo as Migrants in Nigeria?

Three years ago, I travelled to the United States...

Is This The Final Blow For Andy Ubah As Soludo “Enters” The Race?

I believe many keen observers of event in my beloved Anambra state will be wondering what next for Andy Ubah after the Supreme Court Ruling that struck out his case...

Gender Inequality; Western Civilization, and the Future We Never Bargained For

Traditionally, people tend to grapple with the concept of gender inequality as it concerns the man's attempt at lording it over women...

Begging For The Life Of Your Twins

In today's Nigeria, twin children are very attractive and somewhat celebrated. The parents of these children usually get some kind of support from neighbours and friends particularly when it seems that it is mostly the abjectly poor that often have twins...

It’s the PEOPLE

Across the land today, and in many political circumstances,...

Independence Speech: The Oracle Speaks Not

This is not the time to preach hope. Why hope, when what you are hoping for is here in Nigeria? Hope feeds no one. The people are hungry. The people are afraid of their own shadows...

Nigerians Are Objective & Brutally Honest!

Africa will receive respect when we have nuclear power, when we have money and when outsiders perceive dire consequences and a heavy price to pay for being politically incorrect about Nigeria and Africa...