Man & Woman

Woman As The Pearl Of Valentine

There’s no better way to give proper attention to Valentine’s Day than celebrating the essence of womanhood. It is incumbent on me to deliver knockout...

Oni, BAO and the mathematics of alignment

The recent realignment in the UK - where figures like Robert Jenrick are “uniting the right” - proves the “defection bug” is no longer...

Osun APC, Tinubu’s hand and the Ides of March

Ahead of the 2026 Osun governorship election, it is incontrovertible that a consensus candidate has been chosen for the All Progressives Congress (APC). He...

Is Foreplay Un-African?

I want you all to think -seriously- the last time you did it, how much time did you put into foreplay.  Did you tease your significant other with come hither looks and subtle touches?  Did you take your time to get him or her in the mood?

Does love transcend colour? Interracial Marriages in focus

It can be a lonely path when you’ve decided to take this route to marital bliss. You may lose some friends, fall out with family members while others would adopt a wait and see attitude in anticipation of the demise of the relationship...

Computer Love

I have met a couple of people who met their boy/girlfriends over the internet and subsequently got married and are still happily married till this day...

Is Digging Into Your Spouse’s Past Necessary?

In some case it may be necessary to share the events of the past with your spouse especially if it is affecting your marriage adversely and your future together...

7 Things I Understood Better 12 Months into Marriage

Fairy tales usually end with... and they lived happily ever after...I am sure there are folks out there that would agree with me that they thought it would be smooth sailing after their wedding...

Nigerians, Their Dogs and Their Cats

Somewhere in South Dakota are my woman and her dogs and cats waiting for me, waiting for me to come home. Love or no love there will be no dogs and cats for me...

MUT’A: Temporary Marriage in Islamic Culture and Religion

Marriage as an institution differs in structure, function, and meaning from one culture to another...

May-December Relationships: Is It Love or Infatuation?

Generally speaking, modern society is still not comfortable with older women-younger men relationships. The preference is still older men-younger women...

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Resignation as an African Abomination

“African leaders do not resign, that’s cowardice and the...

State of Anarchy: Stopping the Reign of Ethnic Militias

The powers that be at Aso Rock have decided to deal with the evils of today, and abandon a policy of containment that has failed repeatedly in the past five years…

Military Intelligence and International Law

Intellectual liberty has permitted those of us who do not bear arms to peep into this special field of military science in order, primarily, to use international law to dissuade excesses during international armed conflicts...

An Apology to Wole Soyinka

Last Tuesday was the 76th birthday of Wole Soyinka, extraordinary dramatist, poet, professor of literature, renaissance man, and one of the world’s greatest humanists...

Unfulfilled Promises to Light Up Benin City’s Airport Road

Years of neglect of the lighting-up project of airport...

When Rimi Hit the Bull's Eye!

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The Pain and the Agony of Love

Other than the pain of bereavement, I wonder if there is a greater pain than the pain of being dumped by a lover. When someone dies, you pray the Lord to take the soul; but when you are dumped, you feel as though your soul is being forcefully taken...

Yes, It’s All About Atiku

“This is not about Atiku Abubakar. It is about...