Man & Woman

The duty of every red-blooded African man is to shine as many congos as earthly possible; while it is the duty of any and all blue-blooded African woman to make …

Bold, brash, infuriating, funny, crafty, big-hearted, double-dealing… Nigerian men are as different as they come but there are some characteristics that stand out…

For several years now, the cost of love has been discouraging me from falling in love again. It is because of the cost of love that I have been running …

Every month in America, a holiday extracts money from me like a root canal. Do I get a raise from my job every month? Do you know how rich I would be …

Why do I have to wait this long for the “it” woman to come into my world. Why? You see, not just any woman would do. She must be a …

Some people marry for love. For economic reasons. For social status. For stability. For children. For cultural purposes. Or simply because it is the logical thing to do right after …

Marrying a Nigerian man is like buying a car from an auction. What you see is NOT what you get…

It is not hard to see why many Nigerian young men are either postponing their marriageable age or altogether abandoning the enterprise. From Nigeria to America and even Europe the …

Every Nigerian man I know would rather marry a Nigerian woman. But sadly, these women want to know the type of car one drives, whether one lives in a home …

There was a time when Africans, especially the men, kept to their promise of someday returning home to marry the women they left behind. Those days are mostly long gone…

Culturally, Nigerian men are overbearing, controlling, and paternalistic.  They relate to their fathers and mothers differently. They believe it is “a man’s world” and so they have the tendency to …

Getting hitched has never solved anybody’s problems. In fact, marriage increases a man’s troubles and problems and frustrations and responsibilities…

I don tire for all these my African brothers sef! Good African women abound. They are plentiful, and simply waiting to be taken. My friend Victor has convinced me.

I have always wondered why we men can’t easily resist the emotional pull that beautiful women exact on our hearts…

He’s the dream of every young, naïve and inexperienced girl who has not yet experienced a heart break. Even the more sophisticated, experienced and mature ones still end up with …